Topic: Nickname

Like most other late 19th Century families in England and Australia at least, my Darchy family delighted in never using a person’s full first name. It was usually just shortened – William became “Bill”, Frances became “Frank” etc, or the middle name was used – Edith Lillian was always “Lily” and her daughters Lillian Vada and Nancy Elizabeth were always “Vada” and “Betty”. Clara Cecille was “Clare” and George Thomas Darchy was always “Tim” possibly because there were several other Thomases variously known as “Tom” and “Dick”.

A few had more unique nicknames – Frances Clare Darchy was always known as “Aunt Jig” because when young she could never stay still. Her nephew FritzEdward Wreford Darchy was “Reefer” while another nephew also FritzEdward was “Son” or “Ted”.

My English mother -in-law’s father also came from a nickname-addicted family of ten. Adeline Maud Attrill was “Add”, Mabel Florence Attrill was “Mae” , Edith Emma Attrill was “Ede”, Sydney Claude was “Sid”. Not really unique nicknames but easy to trip off the tongue in a hurry!

I was always just plain “Nan”, even at school where there were some quite creative names, especially among the boarders. It wasn’t until I had left home and all the people who knew me that I became Nancy. When I started writing family stories I always used my middle name Vada as well, to distinguish me from countless other Nancys, not just within the family but out in the big wide world.